One very helpful resource for me was the seminar Carolyn Mahaney did at the Desiring God National Conference 2004. You can download it for free and really the whole conference is worth listening to :) This is a very practical seminar.
Totally helpful and inspiring. My favorite quote has to do with a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for dinner so listen for it! It totally helped me to prioritize my time and life as a wife and mom and woman.
Another helpful read for me was What’s the Difference?